"While it's true that [people] do everything [they] can think of, the problem is precisely that [they] can't see how [they're] the problem. Having the problem [they] have, nothing [they] can think of will be a solution." - Leadership and Self-Deception by the Arbinger InstituteThis is a great book that can help you see how you are the cause of most of your problems. The only problem is that the very nature of that scenario is that you're blinded from finding a solution because you are convinced that you know the answers, or someone else is the problem, etc.
Whenever you encounter a tough problem whether it be in your job search or with interactions with your spouse, children or any other relationship, first seek inside yourself to discover if you are justifying your own actions and thus betraying yourself....
...this is just the tip of the iceberg. If this intrigues you, you'll have to get the book.
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